Monthly Archives: June 2013

returning home

I have been silent here because I have been traveling.  In fact, I am still far from home…  And yet, I’m home.  It’s beautiful. I took a trip to visit my parents.  It was greatly needed, and I was overjoyed … Continue reading

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the little things

Because a little reminder never hurts! This is what I do when I find myself bored or unsatisfied without reason–I remind myself of what I already know.

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Duck… But Don’t Run A touching essay written by a woman whose husband announced he wanted a divorce, and how she won him back… By not trying to win him back. A good read, if you’re into relationship issues or … Continue reading

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anger isn’t bad

Fargazing isn’t about never getting angry.  It’s not about getting walked all over in the name of pacifism or new-agey, peace-n-loveness…  It’s about making choices for what’s best for you.  It’s not about other people or outward acts of kindness … Continue reading

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a triumph

I’m very surprised.  I was so upset about that job, and I really didn’t think that forcing myself to change perspectives or focus on positives would make me any less upset…  But it really, truly did!   I told myself … Continue reading

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bumps in the road

As I’ve said before, this blog won’t always be happy feel-good stuff.  Because, well, it’s not a motivational blog–it’s a personal blog.  I’m human.  I’m new to this whole ‘fargazing’ philosophy.  I have rough days, too. Today is–I’m struggling not … Continue reading

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15 Things You Should Give Up To Be Happy When looking for happiness, people tend to focus on GETTING:  acquiring, earning, buying, creating.  I think this can sometimes lead to more frustration, because it can be very difficult to ascertain … Continue reading

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